Who am I ?

Joy, Bliss, Transcendence, and Ecstasy

I chose it because there isn't one word in our language which contains all of the concepts I embrace and aspire to live. It isn't my given name but it is my REAL name.

I am 34 years old and have enjoyed many things in life. I have always been drawn to sexual energy and persons who are comfortable in their own skin. I discovered one day, to my delight, I am one of those persons. I want to help other people become truly comfortable and satisfied in their own unique sexuality.

What is it that I do?

I offer a variety of services from educational to experiential, involving sensual touch, healing bodywork, demonstration of tantric and other physical techniques and exercises, time and companionship. I offer sacred intimacy and intimacy coaching for singles, couples and those in alternative relationships, including polyamorous and same gender. It is my avocation to immerse myself helping men, women and other gendered persons to fulfill their sensual potential.

Why did I choose this line of work?

I have had one primary career as a licensed body worker/health care provider which I enjoyed thoroughly and have now retired from. A main reason for my transition out of that field was the limitations placed on me with that license. ALL bodywork is valid and we need the wonderful variety of providers available in our state. I have immense respect for those persons who offer licensed body work - as licensed massage practitioners, physical therapists, and chiropractors. I have high regard for those persons who practice the more esoteric work - reiki, meditations, yoga, other energy works as well as those persons who offer mainstream counseling and education. We need these practitioners and people need access to them through insurance and the medical avenues.

I feel I have more to offer by moving away from medical work and into other, less available work that is so needed. As my mainstream bodywork clients would talk to me, I heard how many people are literally starving for sensual/sexual touch and affirmation. I felt I was doing a disservice by having to stop and draw boundaries when I could feel how much and how easily I could help. I saw how much people needed to just TALK about it, without fear of judgment without condemnation, without FEAR. I wanted to do more. It felt like I was holding back something which I naturally have to give. Compassion, tenderness, warmth, knowledge & highly charged sensual energy. When I am able to give these things I feel more energized myself. I feel I have done something worthwhile. I really believe this is what I was meant to be doing. It feels like coming home to myself and more authentic than telling people I can't touch them in a deeper way when there is a need.

This work chose me - It just took a while to come to terms with it

It's taken me several years to actually make the move into this field. Our society does not yet have a respected place for persons who practice a full spectrum of bodywork in an ethical, safe and loving manner.

DO you REALLY want to do this type of work?

Yes, I really want to do this work. I really believe what I am saying here. This isn't a stepping stone or something I am doing exclusively for financial gain. We all need groceries but we also all need work that sustains us mentally and emotionally. I believe I can help people have better, richer, healthier and happier existences and that that makes the world better for all of us.

Why do you advertise on erotic and escort sites?

This is a field where there are few mainstream ways to let people know what I do. This is a "new" and dynamic field. Sensual bodywork has been a part of human history forever, however; educated, compassionate sensual work which addresses contemporary needs and issues is just coming into its own. Until practitioners in this field have a better way to reach people, connecting with people who are open to exploring this area of their lives requires creativity.

You have a lot of info here - are you still fun?

YES. Oh, Yes.

How is this different from erotic artists/entertainers such as dancers?

Let me state here that I believe that erotic artistry is an important line of work in and of itself. The merging of entertainment, of providing people with a break from the mundane and inundating the senses with sights, sounds & movement is just as important as the work I do. However, entertainment is provided as entertainment. The images provided are stimulating because they operate on socially conditioned reactions, like the music in a scary movie lets you know that something is around the corner and you feel your heart beating faster, the clanging of the quarters from the slot machines at a casino keeps you charging forward in the quest to win big, or the rhythmic, pulsating music at an erotic dance club tells you to respond sexually before the dancers even appear.

Art, erotic and other, has always been a part of the human social experience but, just as you wouldn't go see a movie about relationships to deepen your own, there needs to be something more for people wishing to grow, practice new skills, learn more communication and CONNECT.